appearance + misunderstanding = CHAOS

Aku kenal a guy past few years, his quite good looking cuz his mixed blood. Ya, his really a good looking guy bagi other girls lah, bagi aku dia biasa je. He may look like a bit quite person, serious and smart.Yes, he is smart guy, i can say dia ada otak yg sgt super creative and genius bg aku. But somehow, all those thing kadang-kadang buatkan dia a bit control by other. Which i mean...org tak akan expect yg dia actually type yg gila-gila, suka merepek, suka membebel dan suka dgr lagu rock. Org akan assume that his a type of guy yg high taste, polite and decent. Mostly people akan judge kita dari rupa kita,thats actually not really good attitude i can say that. Kita suppost kenal and make a relationship dulu baru kita kenal org tu mcm mana kan? So, bg aku kadang-kadang kesian juga dkt org yg ada rupa ni, or org yg ada attraction.Sebabnya?mereka selalu disalahfahamkan oleh org lain.

For the Good looking guy, maybe bkn niat diorang nak buatkan someone hurt or whatever.Maybe the girls yg overreact.If the good looking guy treat u nicely or help u with ur work or show his side or careness...automatically, the girls think differently right?Jangan bohong lar kalau nak ckp NO.....aku sendiri pernah lalui benda tu okay. There's 1 time aku chat dgn this good looking guy, and seems like dia rasa annoiying with all those rumors which is yg all the girls keep sayin yg dia dah hurt kan that girls feeling...okay2...i understand..that girl totally overreact kan?so, this guy rasa pissed off and he said to me ''why on earth, people like to made up story about me,eventho i dont know who is she and cause me trouble?Tak boleh ke biarkan org hidup senang?''.....okay,something like that lah the dialog.

Bagi aku,after what happend dekat aku...aku will be more carefull.I'm not gonna simply-simply judge org.Bila kita tgk org tu sekali imbas,kita terus judge org tu mcm mana and secara tak sengaja kita akan menaruh harapan like..oh,org ni gaya dia mcm ni mesti dia pemalas,mesti dia pengotor. Oh,mamat tu hensemnye....muka innocent nak mampus mesti dia baik kan?mesti dia kerja bagus kan....? see.....kita as manusia mmg suka judge org and make conclusion about other people life...then kite pun mulalah mengharap something yg high dekat org tu.But later on bila kita dah kenal org tu dah tahu luar dalam perangainya kita pun rasa mcm dipermainkan,rasa tertipu because of imej luarannya.

Tak semestinya all the good looking guy is player,suka girls and all that nasty things yg org suka related kan.Kita jgnlah jadi bodoh and berfikiran sempit or negative about it.We should think both side...otak kiri kanan biar function sikit barulah kita tak narrow mind.Doesn't mean guy yg pendek,chubby,gelap dan botak is buruk sgt perangainya.Who know actually dia seorang yg sgt soft spoken,penyabar and very understanding and Kita tak tahu kadang ada juga guy yg jonggos,mata sepet mcm apek jual beras,bersaiz kecik dan pendek mcm tu pun boleh mempermain-mainkan perasaan girls.

See,nampak tak apa yg aku cuba explain kan kat sini?kalau nak direct aku cakap mcm ni je.

Muka mamat hensem and jambut mcm mamat korea kadang-kadang tak semestinya suka buat someone heartbroken.but Muka mamat yg mcm penyamun beras tu pulak,kita tgk mcm baik je but at the end dia yg buatkan kau heartbroken.

So,moral of story...dont judge people...know them firts then u talk about them..